Hello… sorry its been a while

Hello,

I know it has been a while since I last blogged. It has been quite crazy these past few weeks with work, family visits and a 5k charity event that I took part in. I also went to the theatre for the first time in a long time. I do really love trips to the theatre. My cousin, who is visiting from lovely Sunny South Africa, and myself at the last minute went and watched the curious incident of the dog in the night. It is a play based on the book which a lot of people recommended. It has been on my list to read and to see the show for a long time.

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The show was incredible. It is quite a sad and intense story but it also has a lot humour in it. The effects were absolutely brilliant! I highly recommend going to see it on the London West end or if there is a tour of the show near to where you are. I still need to read the book. My list of books I want to read is quite long though so I will get to it. I am sure it will be a great read! A book I am currently reading which I’ve just started, that I cannot put down is called in bitter chill by Sarah Ward. It is a mystery surrounding a kidnapping and murder. In my next blog post though I am going to do some more reviews of films I’ve seen recently and books I’ve read. I also have started trying a few new recommended beauty products which I will speak about as well.

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In other very exciting news, it is official that I will be working at the Cheltenham literature festival. It is one of the biggest and recognised festivals in the UK. It is going to be so amazing to be behind the scenes and see how it all runs. I am looking so forward to meeting loads of interesting people there. I will be blogging about the experience.

In other smaller scale news, I am starting to worry that I will not be ready for the Royal Parks half marathon which I will be running next month. I just don’t feel I will be ready. I so badly wanted to try and improve my previous time in preparation for the London and Dublin Marathons next year. Anyway I will keep at it. I will do the best I can. I will be running for Starlight Children foundation UK. They are an amazing children’s charity who grant wishes for seriously and terminally ill children. They also do hospital work where they fund parties and distraction boxes to try help the kids take their minds off their treatments etc. They also plan these escape days where the wish children and their families, as well as children from local hospitals are invited to a wonderful day out. It just helps them get away from all the hospital visits and daily struggles that they face.

Thank you so much if you take the time to read my blog posts. I am truly grateful. New blog posts very soon.

Let me know what you’ve been up to recently or if there is a book or event you really enjoyed

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31 years old and now what

So I recently turned 31 and I have to admit this year turning another year older did make me a bit sad. The reason being is I thought by this age I would have achieved so much more by now. Yet here I am still not quite close enough to where I want to be.

I don’t own a mortgage; I am not a mom yet. I am not even in a relationship yet alone engaged or married. I live in a house share in London and I don’t have a qualification behind my name.

I just always have had such big dreams and visions for my life. I desperately want to be a mom as I feel like I have a lot of love to give. I want to meet a lovely man to share my life with. I would love to have my very own house and to be a published writer. I’ve imagined lovely moments shared with my family, I’ve envisioned my very own book launch. None of it however has materialised yet.

I am naturally a very hopeful and positive person. I never lost faith that if I just keep at it and have patience it will happen. Never lose that determination. However recently it has been a struggle to keep my spirits afloat. Doubt, loneliness and sadness have clouded over my normal easy going and happy demeanour a bit. I see my friends moving in with their lovely partners, having children and getting engaged or married. Every time I am genuinely ecstatic and pleased for them, as all I want for them is happiness. However each time it chips away a little at me as it reminds me of my failures and how another year has gone by and still I’m far away from where I want to be. Each time it’s an adjustment for me, as I get used to seeing them or hearing from them less often. Life goes on and I have to accept that.

I think because I grew up as an only child, my friends became my family and I love and care about them so much.  Part of it is that I don’t have my own family as yet and so my friends are still a big part of my life. I almost feel like I’m being left behind each time but each person has their own journey to travel on. I know it’s a natural progression in life and I just have to try, not letting it get me down too much.

I know I have a lot to be grateful for and I do try my best to remember that when I’m feeling this way. I decided to move to London on my own from South Africa 4 years ago in the hopes of making a better life for myself. London has given me a lot of incredible experiences. I have travelled to Prague, Paris, New York, Vegas and Belgium. London has made me self sufficient and that is something I truly am thankful for.

Does anyone else feel like this? Have you been struggling recently? Let me know in the comments. Also want to say a big thanks to anyone who is taking the time to read my blog posts. I hope they get better as they go along and I hope you find them helpful or interesting in some way.

My day with Marian…

So I’ve mentioned in previous post about myself how much I love Marian Keyes, the international best-selling author. Recently I was so fortunate to meet her for the first time after all these years. I thought I would tell you all about it as it was one of the most wonderful experiences.

Marian’s books have been part of my life for years. I absolutely adore her and her incredible books. They have gotten me through many a tough time. They have been such a wonderful escape for me. Her books have made me laugh, cry and just so happy. There is such a special gentleness, warmth and of course her wonderful humour that Marian brings to her characters and stories. It is about real woman facing intensely hard circumstances but yet she tells them in such a fantastic way.

Marian has a new book out called the woman who stole my life, which is a brilliant read! If you haven’t read it already, I really recommend it! You will not be disappointed!

So back to the story now! I found out about a literary festival happening at Althorp house, which is Princess Diana’s ancestral home, and that Marian would be doing an event there. It is about an hour train from London and then a cab ride. I immediately was so excited and thought this is my opportunity. It didn’t matter to me about the tube and train Journey. I knew it would be worth it to make the trip. I was lucky enough to get a ticket and then it was real that this would finally be my chance.

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So on the 11th of  June  at 6.30 am I went on an adventure! I got to Northampton station. I jumped into a cab and was on my way, excitement bubbling in my tummy the whole way. The driver gave me some lovely history about the estate and Diana, as we drove along and I enjoyed the scenery. We pulled up to the gates and I exclaimed breathlessly, I was there to see Marian. The lady asked if I worked with Marian. Grudgingly I admitted I do not work with Marian but am here for her event. I wish I worked with Marian haha. The driver took me to the other entrance and then I was there. It is such a beautiful place! I walked around and then made my way to the state dining room for the event.

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After a few minutes Marian entered with the lovely Suzi, who would be interviewing her. It was amazing and the whole audience laughed throughout the interview.  Marian then did a reading from her new book which was so funny! It was one of the funniest parts in the book as well and to hear Marian reading it, made it even more amazing! Then it was time for the audience to ask questions and Marian answered each question with wit, charm, honesty and of course humour!  I did have a good question in mind to ask but wasn’t brave enough unfortunately. Maybe next time.

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Then it was the book signing and I was overwhelmed with excitement and the reality that I would be meeting someone who I have so much respect and love for. I tried to squash the nerves and then I was next in line. I got to give her a hug and to have a little quick chat. I also got my book signed. I didn’t want to take up to much of her time, as I knew other people were waiting their turn. I went outside and had to sit down as the emotion came over me, that after all these years I had met one of my heroes, there isn’t any other word for it. I had to phone my mom back home in South Africa right away to tell her about the whole experience and how special it had been.

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Not only is Marian, one of the most talented and gifted writers but is inspiring as well, in her honesty about life’s ups and downs.

I found it truly remarkable how much Marian has been through in life but yet still manages to make us all laugh. Marian gives me comfort in the fact that you are allowed to have your sad and lonely days. You will have those days where everything makes you sad and you feel depressed and that’s ok. Not every horrible experience can be a lesson and turned into something positive. Sometimes you just can’t be bubbly and happy.

Marian is one of the loveliest, engaging and approachable people I’ve been lucky enough to meet. I don’t have enough adjectives to explain how special Marian is.  I have even more love for her after meeting her in person if that’s even possible. Marian also has twitter and is hilarious. Her tweets really make me smile and laugh so hard! I know people might say oh you just have adoration for her but that’s not the case. I feel a genuine friendship love for this incredible lady and will always be supportive of her.Colleagues at work often eye me suspiciously when I’m chuckling away at my phone. They are like what’s Marian gone and said now. No one makes me laugh like Marian except maybe my parents and my one friend Kate who has such a brilliant sense of humour.

I really could go on and on but will stop now. It was truly one of the most memorable days and I will cherish it forever.

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Reviews of movies I’ve seen recently

Movies I’ve seen recently…

I am a big movie fan and am a regular cinema goer.

I thought I would review the last couple films I’ve watched recently and also mention the upcoming ones I’ looking forward to.

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Spy,  with Melissa McCarthy, Jude Law, Jason Stratham and British comedienne Miranda Hart. My friend came with me to watch this and we laughed the whole way through! Melissa was on fire and I loved her! Jason Stratham stole the show for me though. He was so unbelievably hilarious. He had seriously some of the best lines. One of the memorable ones is when Melissa’s character asks him how he got the suit. He says I effing made it didn’t I?” I burst out laughing he was so funny! I also loved Rose Byrne in the film as I thought she was amazing as the villain who you actually kind of like in a way. She was brilliant! One of the memorable moments as well is when Miranda hart tackles the rapper 50 cent! All in all it has its cheesy gags and laughs but overall a thoroughly entertaining funny spy film which actually had a good story to it.

Jurassic world- I enjoyed the first Jurassic park film and found it entertaining but the next two didn’t really capture my attention like the first one. When I saw the trailer for the new one and of course that the incredibly hot Chris Pratt would be in it, I decided to check it out.  The graphics were incredible! The dinosaurs looked really real. I loved the whole lay out of the resort and everything. Chris Pratt was funny and engaging! I love his smile! I didn’t really warm to Bryce Dallas Howard though. I don’t think her acting in the film was that great to be honest. She had some funny lines but I just always seemed to be aware she was acting. Overall it is worth seeing on the big screen with the graphics and sound. It’s an epic adventure!

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The longest ride- This is the new Nicholas sparks film and I loved it.

I thought both Scott Eastwood and Britt Robertson bought the characters to life beautifully. Alan Alda was great as Ira as well. This film doesn’t top the notebook, dear John or safe haven’t for me but it really bought tears to my eyes. Scott Eastwood is also very easy on the eyes and is really gorgeous. The story revolves around 2 different love stories set in different times. One story takes place during World War 1 and the other, in recent years. It is wonderful how the two stories come together. Another thing I love about a Nicholas sparks film is the scenery and location of the films. I just find it so beautiful. I think if you enjoy his books and films then you will love it.

Films that I am excited for and am looking forward to seeing are Hot pursuit with Reese Witherspoon and Sofia Vegara. It looks very funny and I pretty much love Reese in any film. Ricky and the flash with Meryl Streep. I think she is really one of the greatest actresses and her films are always so good! Also the last hunger games film. I was never into dystopian type stories before the hunger games but I came to care so much about these characters and the films are so good! I also am looking forward to the animated peanuts film. I have always had a soft spot for snoopy and Charlie brown since I was little.

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What are some of the films you enjoyed or seen recently? Let me know your thoughts and if you have any recommendations.

The ABC of me

The ABC of me

As a way if getting to know me a bit more, I’ve done an ABC of myself. Would love to see your ABC as well, so let me know!

A is for African. I was born and raised in South Africa. It is the most beautiful country and it will always have a huge part of my heart.

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B is for Books Since a very young age I have loved escaping into books. I think because I don’t have a brother or sister and also as I haven’t met the right man just yet, I can live vicariously in a way. In the books I can be a beloved sister. I can be loved so deeply by a lovely man. I can be anyone else but me. I can be the beautiful girl in the story.

C is for Celine Dion. Anyone who knows me will know how much I love her voice and music. She has been my favourite singer since I was little. I also love how family orientated she is and how devoted she is.

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D is for Determination. This is a huge part of who I am. I have a lot I wish to do and achieve in life and I go for it as best I can.

E is for Endeavor as no matter how many knocks I have to face, I just keep trying and somehow keep going.

F  is for family and friends who I love with all my heart. Their support, encouragement, love and advice have got me through some of the toughest moments. My life would be meaningless without them.

G is for Guilt My old friend guilt follows me around always waiting to pounce. I feel guilty about anything and everything. Also my guilty pleasures are Pretty little liars, reality shows like Real housewives of Beverley hills, Made in Chelsea

H is for Height which mine is  1.40m tall. I am a short arse 😉

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I is for Improvement. I always try to improve myself. I am striving to be more honest with how I am feeling and not be afraid to actually express what I really want or am feeling. I am also trying to be more assertive without losing my natural patience and helpfulness.

J is for jewellery of which I have a few pieces which have a lot of sentimental value to me given to me by my Mom, Gran, family and friends.

K is for Keepsakes I love keeping photos of special memories and also I love mementos from my travels. At theatre shows I always end up buying a souvenir from it.

L is for London which I am very fond of as it has given me so much. I moved there 4 years ago on my own, to try and make a better life for myself and to achieve some of my goals. It has made me self sufficient and I’ve had some amazing experiences since I’ve been here. I couldn’t be more grateful.

M is for Marian Keyes who is my favourite author and has been for years. Her books are incredible and she is a wonderfully talented writer. I always am so excited for her new books. I have had the good fortune recently of meeting her for the first time and she is truly one of the loveliest people I’ve had the pleasure of meeting.

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N is for Numbers which is a big part of my daily working life as I work in accounts.

O is for Optimism and hope for the future have had a huge hand in helping me through the past few years as well as the love of my family. I have my low days but I do my best to try not lose complete faith that I will get to where I want to be. That someday i will become a mom as I have a lot of love to give.  I’m hopeful I might one day become a published writer and people will respond to what I have to say.

P is for pet peeves which are when people don’t use common courtesy. With my height I also am constantly being bumped by backpacks and people shoving past and knocking me. I know im short but im still here! I just wish people would be more aware.

Q is for quote- “When life gives you lemons the last thing I want to do is make lemonade. Sometimes a horrible experience is just that, a horrible experience. – Marian Keyes in a Sunday times column. This is so true!!

R is for Running- this is something I started about two years ago and have found it very therapeutic. I did my first ever marathon in Paris in April 2015 and am planning my next ones in Dublin, London and New York if possible.

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S is for Shoes I love shoes! I cant get enough of them. Hoping one day when im old enough I can afford my first ever designer pair 😉

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T is for Turners syndrome which I was diagnosed with at birth. It definitely has had a part to play in shaping who I am today but it has never completely defined me. It hasn’t always been easy but I have come to terms with it. I cant have children so will have to look at adoption as a way to become a mom. Ive accepted this though and see it as i will be able to love a child as my own who needs it and hasn’t had it before 🙂

U is for Underwear which I don’t pay major attention to as I just tend to buy mismatching average underwear which does the job. I keep thinking whats the point as I have no one to dress for. Maybe it would be nice to have a sophisticated and pretty set to make me feel good.

V is for Vacation So far my travels have taken me to Ireland, Prague, New York, Las Vegas, Paris and Belgium. I still have quite a list of places I would love to see such as Italy, Greece, Spain, Norway, Switzerland and a few cities in America.

W is for Wish I have quite a few things that I wish for. Happiness and health for my family and friends. I truly wish there could be more tolerance and kindness in this world. I wish that when someone is tolerant and kind that it wasn’t taken as a weakness to be taken advantage of . I wish people didn’t take loved ones and genuine people who offer patience and kindness for granted.

X is for (Ex friends) I have had friends over the years and some of them have stayed and continue to hopefully and others have just cut contact without any reason I could understand. Each time though its chipped a little piece of me away. As time marches on you learn to let go.

Y is for Yes I am definitely the yes girl. No matter how inconvenient it may be for me I always try to help and never say no.

Z is for Zodiac sign of which mine is Gemini. I am torn in two a lot of times which is the emotional side of me and the practical side.

Hello

Hi there 🙂

I am a 31 year old South African girl trying to make her way in the world, having moved to London, UK.

I was diagnosed with Turners Syndrome when I was a baby and will be discussing that as well.

I’ve decided to give writing a blog a try and am hoping I will have some interesting things to say.

I will be talking about various things such as my travels, book reviews, films, beauty products, experiences in London and a lot more. I will also be putting my thoughts forward on all sorts of different topics

I truly hope I get some readers who I can get to know and interact with as we go along.

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